Don\'t Judge my choices if you don\'t understand my reasons. This is a quote that I have heard over again as an adult growing up with the concept of free will and making choices. It was one of the first lessons I learned, and there has always been a sense of pride in knowing that I grew up knowing and understanding this saying.
As an adult, the decisions you make have far greater consequence. If you are making choices like drinking or being promiscuous, you\'re literally straining your body and possibly your mind to the point of pain. If you\'re making choices such as using drugs or even getting involved in dangerous activities, you are literally adding fuel to a fire. So, please, when you make decisions like those, you better understand the reason behind them, or you risk making decisions that could potentially harm you in the end.
It\'s important to learn why you make the choices you do. You must be able to look at things from all perspectives to make sound decisions. Sometimes the reasons you have for making the decision are good, but not necessarily valid. Sometimes the reasons you have for making the decision are bad, but not necessarily valid either.
It\'s important to understand why you make decisions. This way you can avoid making bad decisions based on bad or wrong motives. You\'ll be able to see all the different reasons and ways that you can actually justify your actions based on the truth and reality. This will allow you to make better decisions for yourself, instead of just reacting to situations out of anger and hurt. Being able to look at reasons from many different angles will help you to see the whole picture and dig deeper into the reasoning behind your actions.
So many people act like they know why something happened only to find out it wasn\'t their fault! Don\'t be one of those people! If you truly understand what the reasons are that you\'re having problems with, then you can make better decisions for yourself and better choices for others. Being able to find the reasons and fixing the problems that come with them will be a huge boost to your self-confidence and overall outlook on life.
So many times we make big decisions that are not based on reason or reality. Instead we base our decisions on emotion and the feelings of others. When we make decisions based on emotion we often don\'t think rationally, or we simply say the right thing at the right time! It\'s important to know why you make the decisions you do and how to recognize the logic and truth in your actions. That logic and truth will be your key to happiness!
